The Lady Programmer – Gem
Story by Gem – The Lady Programmer
Doing Full-time Freelance Business as a Single Parent
Being a work-at-home mom is not really what I had planned in life. I had studied in a good school, earned an engineering degree and gained some work experiences in IT and electronic companies. Never in my life did I realize that I would choose freelance web designer as my career.
I left my previous work a year ago in search for a job that will give me better compensation. While I was applying to jobs in my place, I was invited by a friend to do writing jobs. I accepted that job so that I could earn some pocket cash. Soon, I got my first payment and I was happy with it. It was not too long when I discovered that is possible to earn good income online.
Eventually I realized that those writing jobs are really those short SEO articles that are published over several blogs. Soon, I started my own blogs where I was able to earn some decent income writing paid reviews. I learned what Google PR, Alexa rank and Technorati authority – something that I never learned when I was an IT specialist in one of my previous jobs.
Starting out a freelance career
As I was blogging, a friend recommended me to check out online freelance jobs. I signed up at some of them and started bidding on jobs. I got frustrated at the beginning because I got one rejection after another. Clients prefer to hire freelancers who had work histories to show and a good portfolio to boast.
I decided to learn about the freelance trade for a few weeks. I read all I can about how to be a successful freelancer. I had to change my mindset – I began to adapt how entrepreneurs think. Freelancing is a big business that is managed by a single person.
Soon a client gave me a break at my very first assignment. I had accomplished that assignment after a few hours and gained a good feedback. It was not long before I had offers to work on assignments. At one point, I found myself juggling two freelance assignments. I am pretty much relieved that I was able to do a step forward: I am not a struggling freelancer anymore. At present, my earnings are pretty much the same as when I was still working as an employee but I see the potential of earning more online.
At times when there no freelance gigs to do, I spend that vacant time doing mockups, learning new skills and plenty of blogging. I am presently trying to minimize the habit of earning from sponsored posts and instead, earn from Adsense by trying to learn how to optimize pages for SEO. The same SEO skill is also the one that I can use for clients who prefer to have their websites optimized for the search engines.
The Freelance Life
My work hours for doing freelancing are constantly changing. Sometimes I would work until the wee hours of the morning. At other times I work at daytime. The work hours is depends on the job. My clients come from various locations – most are in US, but I have clients in UK, Australia and even within my country. One thing that I cannot change is the time that I had to spend on helping my kid in her schoolwork. I also allot my weekend time to spend time with my kid.
This arrangement is a lot different when I was still working for companies. Most companies have that lousy 48-hour work week arrangement. This is unlike other countries like the US where the typical work week is only at 40 hours. That 48-hour work week does not even count the overtime hours that a typical Filipino worker is required to render.
Most of my offline friends think that I am lonely at home and just sit on my computer for hours doing work. They are wrong. The office cubicle gave way to a makeshift home-office, and my officemates are replaced by online friends from various social networks and forums. Corporate parties are replaced by EB meets with Filipino bloggers. Most importantly, overtime hours are replaced with those precious times that I spend with my kid.
Gem is a freelance web designer and a single parent. Her main blog, The Lady Programmer, speaks her innate passion on technology and freelance. She also shares her personal opinions and life experience in The Single Parent Talks.
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Thanks for giving me the chance to share my experience to all other moms. Now I’m spreading the word around.
Gem,
You are an inspiration to everyone not only Work Wt Home Moms (and Dads) in this tough global economic times. You took stock of your situation, identified your priorities, researched the options, and carved a path to self determination. Thank you for your inspirational story. Keep up the great work for yourself and for your family.
Be well
Nice post from Gem and thumbs up for Moon to post this online.
The internet is a huge and unlimited goldmine.
Instead of using your hours to earn your dollars and your hours each day are limited, you can use Internet and technology to transform your one hour to become an infinite hour! Very powerful stuff.
The Lady Programmer rocks!
Being your own boss is the best job that one could have, that’s what makes freelancing very nice.
I have attempts at freelancing too but my day job gets in the way. My oDesk account is dormant
Yes moms, this another option for us so we can be there for our kids and do paid work as well…
2 thumbs up for Gem!
It is truly amazing what you have been able to accomplish all while being able to be there for your child.
There are always many moments in our lives that present themselves as great opportunities and most of these require some risk in order to turn them into success stories. This risk turns many people away because they are too afraid to take that first step, but it also opens the door for those that are not afraid. You took that step and have been enjoying the rewards of hard work and dedication.
You had to take the greatest risk being a single mother too, but you have pulled it off with your desire to do the best job and never rest on your laurels. You are continually learning, which also allows you to stay on top of an always changing technology world. This attitude is what sets successful people apart from the crowd. Staying that one step ahead will allow you to continue your success.
Hopefully your story will make people realize what can be accomplished if they dedicate themselves and always strive to be the best. Keep up the great work and congratulations on the success you have already had.
.. and she earns a lot from these stuffs… YOu’re an inspiration to all other Moms out there. Congrats Gem and more power!
I’m same with Pastilan. I can’t accept another job because of my full time work, and I got a baby to take care at night.
And by the way, how can your friends say that you are lonely at you home? You have your kid to play with.
Gem,
Thank you for sharing, your an inspiration to me and your friends on-line c:
Hi Gem, your story is very inspiring. You are an excellent model of determination and perseverance. Despite having some rejections, you worked your way to learn and polish yourself and become competitive. As a result, you also gain more flexibility in your time and being able to take good care of your daughter. I hope many others get to hear your story and be inspired by your works.
Thanks guys, for taking your time to read and support me though your comments. I appreciate it a lot!